When we have a friend that is suffering through one of life's many storms it can be difficult to help. I am reminded of that today we Job replies to his friends. They seem to be needing a lesson in compassion or at the least a lesson in how to support a friend when he needs community. But, I don't blame them for their actions because I have shared their shoes. And I bet you have as well.
Here are some things I try to remember when I have a friend that needs a friend.
1. I don't have all the answers.
So I try not to act like I do.
2. Sometimes a friend needs a good kick in the
pants. Other times they need a hug.
When in doubt.... give the hug.
3. They probably know that God is working all
things out for those He loves. maybe
reminding them isn't the best course of
action.
4. Love always wins. God's story is saturated with
it. So when you don't know what to say,
show love.
Heart and Soul,
BAG
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