...be self-controlled; ...
Peter writes the statement as if it is as simple as that. Just control yourself!!! For me this is a constant battle. yesterday I was determined to do this, but faster than I decided to pursue self-control a series of events outside my control seemed to launch an attack. After reacting in a way that I was sure wasn't under self-control this thought occurred to me. I am not sure who said it but I am confident this is not an original thought bouncing in the head of BAG:
I can not fully control the actions of others. I can only control the actions of myself. This is self-control.
Because I can not dictate others emotions and desires, I must pre-decide much of my responses. Self-control can save us from many challenges down the road.
The good news is, even though yesterday was a challenge and I may have failed in my pursuit. Today is a new day. I will choose to have control over my actions, my emotions and my desires.
Heart and Soul,
BAG
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