"Flee the evil desires of youth, and pursue righteousness, faith, love and peace, along with those who call on the Lord out of a pure heart. Don't have anything to do with foolish and stupid arguments, because you know they produce quarrels. And the Lord's servant must not quarrel; instead, he must be kind to everyone able to teach, not resentful."
----- 2 Timothy 2:22-24
Paul instructs Timothy in two important aspects of being a leader:
In verse twenty-two he tells him to pursue growth as a man, a Christian and a leader.
In verse twenty-three Paul speaks of an issue that has sunk many leaders before their necessary time. Arguments that lead to quarrels slow momentum and hinder progress. As a leader people will at times disagree with any decision you make. Seldom will a unanimous decision be reached in a group of people (think of the last time you were out with your friends and yall were trying to figure out which restaurant to eat at).
What sinks and sidetracks leaders is fighting battles where the outcome does not produce any results. With 'TIME' being a leaders most precious commodity there is a tendency to spend it in worry and circular conversation.
Conflict in relationships is a regular part in building community. Be watchful of the root issues and steer clear of meaningless arguments.
"Father, help me know which battles to fight."
Heart and Soul,
BAG
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